People and Their Actions

While I sit here and observe the world working around me there a several things that are happening around me. From people sitting by themselves to huge groups just chilling and hanging out. There are more people texting that are with other people than those sitting y themselves ans s they would probably be more inclined to join the group. Most of us if we don't see someone we know we will be more inclined to sit by ourselves than trying to meet someone new. Every once in awhile there is a person that approaches a group and says "Can I join you?". What do you think would happen if you were one of those types of people. No one even in college like to be in a unfamiliar environment. Jumping into a conversation with people in which you have no previous history with could be a little nerve racking. They might just assume to sit by themselves because they are different from the average person. What if you passed up the opportunity to meet your could be best friend. I am speaking from experience here I am not just pulling this out of thin air because I hate it when people say something like that with zero experience in the matter.

One day near the beginning of the year I chose not to sit with anyone but someone came and sat by me. We started to talk and we are now best friends now granted you just don't start talking to someone and become best friends with them but it takes time to develop that friendship. Ever since then I try not to sit by myself because you could meet your new friend any day of the week. I try and meet one of my friends for breakfast every morning and through doing that I meet another friend because he started to sit with us. He is a very interesting person and I can learn a lot from him.

So next time you don't have someone to sit with go and try new things if you are comfortable with it. You might surprise yourself and find out how awesome some people can be.